Football player bullied and kicked out of team after coming out. Now he is an ambassador for Stonewall

Source: Jake Williamson on Twitter.

Jake Williamson, a football player, was shunned by his teammates after coming out as gay, and he finally left the team. He made the decision to share his experience after feeling hurt and furious in order to inspire football players in upcoming generations.

The coming-out of football players, rugby players, athletes, and other athletes is a recurring topic of discussion on this site. The majority of the time, this produced good tales where teammates stand by the individual in issue, frequently accompanied by press statements from the affiliated club that laud and celebrate the coming out.


However, it doesn’t always happen for teammates and powerful people to stand behind someone once they come out as homosexual. Consider Jake Williamson’s tale as an illustration. At the age of sixteen, he began playing professional football. As an exchange student, he originally joined a Polish squad and later decided he wanted to work as a personal trainer at a Chicago fitness center.

Covid prevented such plans from materializing. When Williamson was 21 years old, he entered a relationship and made the decision to come out to them. Later, he relocated to Birmingham and joined the Sunday Football League there. He made the decision to publicly acknowledge having a lover on BBC Sport Podcast, and his colleagues immediately demonstrated their displeasure with this decision.

“I had to deal with homophobia for the first time in my life,” Williamson adds. “I was utterly ignored.” It still irritates and saddens him. “It’s terrible enough that we feel horrible in our culture. Isn’t it lovely that your own football team excludes you? I kept playing football, but something in me told me that I should do something with this.”

Despite his desire to stay on the squad, Williamson was finally thrown off. He has been working as a sports ambassador for the LGBTQ group Stonewall since this year in order to help others with his narrative. “I’m not unique, but I want to speak up and illustrate the problems that individuals like me endure.”


Williamson is already aware of the significance of his narrative. “The quantity of messages I’ve got and the number of individuals who reacted to my Instagram Q&As demonstrates that I can make a difference.”

A large part of the problem, according to Williamson, is a lack of representation in football. “I played football for twenty years and I still have to meet the first professional football player who is gay. That is simply incredible.”

Another source of contention is football supporters’ frequently destructive conduct. “It’s difficult to admit you’re gay. That is something that many fans are unaware of. Alternatively, people see it as a sign of weakness.”

According to Williamson, homosexuality has always been concealed, even among the most exclusive clubs. “Players at top clubs received the same instruction in an environment where homosexuality was not tolerated. That is not in their system. If somebody does come out, it will be after they have retired from professional football.”

Being yourself

Williamson wants future generations to know that they can just be themselves. “That you can play football without that load on your shoulders. I only accepted myself when I quit playing football. I want to make life easy for the future generation.”